Presence-Based Coaching: Cultivating Self-Generative Leaders Through Mind, Body, and Heart
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Presence-Based Coaching offers coaches a hands-on resource for developing the capacities and skills needed to be reliably present in all situations, and shows how to let go of habitual—and often ineffective—ways of responding. As author and leadership expert Doug Silsbee explains, once a coach has mastered the inner moves of directing their own attention, they can work to develop the same capability in their clients. The ability of a coach to facilitate lasting, sustainable development in leaders rests on the presence a coach offers to the coach-client relationship.


Doug Silsbee is a leader in the field of presence-based leadership development. He is an executive coach, retreat leader, speaker, and author based in Asheville, North Carolina. In addition, he is an adjunct faculty member at the Federal Executive Institute, a Master Somatic Coach with Strozzi Institute, and an affiliate of the Pyramid Resource Group. He is also the author of The Mindful Coach and can be contacted at


Exercises, Practices, Exhibits, and Figures.



The Author.


Core Assertions.

How to Use This Book.

My Promise.

Reading as Experience.

PART ONE: Presence, Self-Generation, and the Role of Coaching.

1 Presence.

Presence Demystified.

So, What Is Presence?

Implications of Presence.

Presence and the Products of Coaching.

Challenges to Presence.

Chapter Summary.

2 How Humans Change: Conditioning, Identity, and Self-Generation.



Becoming Self-Generative.

How Coaching Supports Self-Generation and Sustainable Change.

Living in Self-Generation.

Chapter Summary.

3 Coach as Development Partner.

Performance Versus Developmental Coaching.

Principles of Developmental Coaching.

Three Integrated Structures for Development.

Presence-Based Coaching: Foundations into Methodology.

Chapter Summary.

PART TWO: Inner Moves for Presence-Based Coaching.

4 Orienting.

A Coaching Model.

Your Client.


Coaching Outcomes.

Expanded Contexts.

Chapter Summary.

5 Holding.

The Relational Field.

Silence and Possibility.

Chapter Summary.

PART THREE: Generative Practices for Presence in Mind, Body, and Heart.

6 Mind.

Building the Observer.

What ’s to Observe?

Working with Habits.

Designing Self-Observations.

Engaging in Self-Observation.

Coaching Implications.

Chapter Summary.

7 Body.

Assertions of Somatic Literacy.


Building Somatic Awareness.

Somatic Self-Obser vation.

Working with Urges.

Body Practices.

Coaching Implications.

Chapter Summary.

8 Heart.

Developing Compassion for Self and Others.

Experiencing the Heart.

Deciding Through the Heart.


Connecting Through the Heart.


Coaching Implications.

Chapter Summary.

PART FOUR: Relational Moves for Presence-Based Coaching.

9 Coach for Self-Observation and Realization.


Invite Internal Awareness.

Focus the Field.

Challenge Identity.

Chapter Summary.

10 Coach for Reorganization.

Shift Perspective.

Reorganize Around Center.

Build Competency in Self-Regulation.

Mobilize Commitment.

Chapter Summary.

11 Coach for Stabilization.

Design Fieldwork.

Work Jointly.

Create New “Facts on the Ground.”

Chapter Summary.

12 Milestones: Entry, Continuation, Completion.



Completion, and Beginning.

Chapter Summary.


Appendix A: Table of Moves and Practices.

Appendix B: Purpose Exercise.

Appendix C: Annotated Bibliography.

Appendix D: Web-Based Resources.